How I changed my Life at 25 #MyDiary
Success is everyones dream. In fact, we all have bigger dreams and achieving them is the ultimum goal. I enrolled in school at a younger age. Growing up I always felt that I have a mission to accomplish in this life. And I worked hard in school so that I can achieve this dream.
Personal reflection
As the saying goes “Hardwork pays” am still in the search of the success I always dream about. One of my accomplishment is owning a brand. I can now gladly say I have a brand name “Kelx”. Kelx simply means Innovations, success and hardwork. It’s a true definition of a warrior, the lions spirit. As Kelx I have transformed myself and positioned my self in a winning position.
Society reflection
Firstly, born and living in two decades and 5 years in no joke. Secondly, life always has a fare share to help you grow both spiritually, mentally and on all aspects. Lastly, at 25 life has taught you a lot. You seem to be independent. You must make it all by yourself. Now you are a grown up, there’s too much expectations from the society. You have to achieve your goals. You are at a critical age, at the middle of a dillema. So what should you do?
School, Job, Family & Responsiblities
At 25 years, may be you just finished school and probably looking for a job. Or even maybe you have a young family that looks up to you. As a man you now have responsibilities. You have to be financially stable. Family to support and you have your goals to achieve.
Financial discipline
Are you financially stable? This calls for discipline in all aspects of life. For example do you have financial discipline? When you have financial discipline you’ll be able to achieve your goals within a shorter time. Let’s say for example I need a house at 30. Therefore, I’ll have to work hard or smart and have a clear saving plan in order to achieve this goal.
Vision at 25
Seeing the bigger picture at 25. At 25 I’ve probably seen it all. Now I must have a clear vision of where I wanna go and where I see myself in the next lets say five years. At this stage in life desion making is always required. Finding the right people or the right partner who you share the same goals and vision in life. Actually we have to talk about dating and relationships.
“kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince”
At 25 it is assumed you have actually been through a lot of relationships and now you have to settle with one person maybe for marriage or even for companionship. Dating at this age is the best as you got to learn more from your partner even before agreeing to settle down or walk down the isle.
“kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince”
Google
I had to google this honestly, if this is to go by then lets expound. Of course now you have been with several boyfriends or girlfriends. You broke up with your ex, you moved, your ex moved on hurt. You have learned your lessons, you vow never to love someone so much. Oh damn, before knowing it, you have a new lover. Time heals right, yeah.
Survival for the Fittest
At this moment life never gives you what you want. However there is a saying that goes. When life gives you lemons, make lemonade . I know right. We all go through different paths and different challenges. Life has up and downs here we apply survival for the fittest mechanism.
Fake it to Make it
Fake it till you make it. You now have to be a go getter, find what you want go for it. Here we have all the mechanism of survival after all ‘I have survived and lived for two decades’, I must make it no matter what – this is the motivation.
Conclusion
In summary, No excuses. Do what you gotta do. Work hard, pray, slay.
If you are born Poor its not your mistake, but if you die poor its your mistake”
Bill Gates
