Success is everyone’s dream. In fact, we all have bigger dreams, and achieving them is the ultimate goal. I enrolled in school at a younger age. Growing up, I always felt that I had a mission to accomplish in this life. And I worked hard in school so that I could achieve this dream.

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Personal reflection

As the saying goes, “Hard work pays.” I am still in search of the success I always dream about. One of my accomplishments is owning a brand. I can now gladly say I have a brand name “Kelx”. Kelx simply means innovation, success, and hard work. It’s the true definition of a warrior, the lion’s spirit. As Kelx, I have transformed myself and positioned myself in a winning position.

Society Reflection

Firstly, being born and living for two decades and five years is no joke. Secondly, life always has a fair share to help you grow both spiritually, and mentally in all aspects. Lastly, at 25, life has taught you a lot. You seem to be independent. You must make it all by yourself. Now that you are a grownup, there are too many expectations from society. You have to achieve your goals. You are at a critical age and in the middle of a dilemma. So what should you do?

School, Job, Family, and Responsibilities

At 25 years old, maybe you just finished school and are probably looking for a job. Or maybe you have a young family that looks up to you. As a man, you now have responsibilities. You have to be financially stable. Family to support, and you have your goals to achieve.

Financial discipline

Are you financially stable? This calls for discipline in all aspects of life. For example, do you have financial discipline? When you have financial discipline, you’ll be able to achieve your goals in a shorter amount of time. Let’s say, for example, that I need a house at 30. Therefore, I’ll have to work hard or smart and have a clear savings plan in order to achieve this goal.

Vision at 25

Seeing the bigger picture at 25, I’ve probably seen it all. Now I must have a clear vision of where I want to go and where I see myself in the next, let’s say five years. At this stage in life, decision-making is always required. Finding the right people or the right partner with whom you share the same goals and vision in life. Actually, we have to talk about dating and relationships.

“Kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince”

At 25, it is assumed you have actually been through a lot of relationships, and now you have to settle with one person, maybe for marriage or even for companionship. Dating at this age is the best, as you get to learn more from your partner even before agreeing to settle down or walk down the aisle.

“kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince”

Google

I had to Google this honestly, if this is to go by, then let’s expound. Of course, now that you have been with several boyfriends or girlfriends. You broke up with your ex, you moved, and your ex moved on hurt. You have learned your lessons, and you vow never to love someone so much. Oh damn, before you know it, you have a new lover. Time heals, right? Yeah.

Survival for the Fittest

At this moment, life never gives you what you want. However, there is a saying that goes When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. I know. We all go through different paths and different challenges. Life has ups and downs, and here we apply the survival of the fittest mechanism.

Fake it to Make it

Fake it till you make it. You now have to be a go-getter; find what you want and go for it. Here we have all the mechanisms of survival. After all, ‘I have survived and lived for two decades. I must make it no matter what. This is the motivation.